The world judges addiction and many people looking for help enter counseling with deep feelings of shame and beliefs that they are "bad" or have "failed" in some way. This set of beliefs is untrue and keeps the cycle of addiction going.

I believe that addicts and alcoholics are some of the most intelligent, creative, and successful people on the planet. I have worked with plenty of addicts who find themselves unable to pay rent or hold a job but are able to find ways to pay for their $200,000 a year cocaine habit. Imagine what that person can accomplish once they are no longer shackled to their drug cravings and put those energies into their goals, family, and career.

You may not relate to the addict I describe, and if you are telling yourself "I just drink, I'm not like those people" then think about what brought you to our counseling page, and how would life be different if you didn't have those concerns holding you back. I have seen the relief that comes from no longer having to hide and pretend that everything is going to be fine when all you want to do is have that next drink.

Individual Counseling

Outpatient individual therapy for addiction at Starlight is based on meeting you where you are at. We believe in the 12 step model, but know that there are plenty of other ways to get sober. During your first few sessions we will collaborate to build a recovery plan to help you achieve sobriety in the way that works best for you.

Our counselors work from the belief that all behaviors serve a purpose, and we will explore your habits, routines, environment, and discuss your past to help identify the underlying reason that you are struggling. Some people can point directly to a traumatic event that led to their alcoholism, while others are trapped in a cycle of repeated behaviors that just doesn't seem to make sense. 

Whether you are new to counseling, or have been to treatment a dozen times, let us help you do things differently and break the cycle of relapse.

Couples Counseling

Addiction is hard on relationships. You may have tried couples counseling, or been to a family program through a treatment center and found that it barely scratched the surface. You want to help and support your loved one, sometimes it looks like it is working until things start to fall apart again. You may be on the verge of giving up on the relationship altogether. There is another way.

Our staff specialize in working with couples struggling with addiction. The built up frustrations and resentments in relationships caused by addiction take time and intentional guidance to heal. Schedule a session with one of our family specialists and see for yourself how things can change when you have the skills in front of you and someone to show you how to use them.

Family Counseling

The whole family suffers during times of active addiction. Counseling offers a safe environment for loved ones to be open and honest about their needs and to learn how to heal whether your family member is sober or wants to continue using despite the consequences. Find the support you need and give us a call to schedule your appointment.